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Infidelity/Cheating Spouse

PrivateInvestigatorWhether it's real or imagined, contending with marital infidelity can be one of the most diffucult personal situations you'll ever have to manage. And while no one ever wants to hear that a partner or spouse has been unfaithful, the only thing worse than finding out is living with uncertainty. To put your mind at ease, a private investigator leaves no stone unturned, putting every resource at our disposal to determine whether you're being deceived, something we've done for thousands of cases. Another benefit of our private investigations experience is that because we fully understand how diffucult a time this can be for you, we'll give full weight to your suspicions while treating your case with the sensitivity it deserves, no matter what the outcome.



Percentage of men who say they would have an affair if they knew they would never get caught: 74%

Percentage of women who say they would have an affair if they knew they would never get caught: 68%

Exploiting Trust    
Most people have a strong desire to believe what a partner has to say. Trusting a partner creates a sense of security and comfort. No one really wants to think that a spouse may be lying, especially when it comes to infidelity. Rather than assume the worst, it's often easier to believe a "pleasant lie" than to acknowledge a "devastating truth." In fact, some people work very hard to overlook a spouse's infidelity, because to acknowledge the alternative is much too painful. This helps explain why the spouse is typically the last to know, because knowing always causes a faithful spouse the most pain. Cheating spouses take advantage of this. Cheaters often exploit their partner's desire to trust by telling their partners exactly what they want to hear for example:  "I would never cheat on you" or “I love you too much to cheat on you.”
Signs of a Cheating Partner
Cheating spouses not only exploit their partner’s desire to trust, but there are few hard and fast signs of infidelity. Cues of infidelity vary widely, from situation to situation, and from relationship to relationship; making it impossible to provide a list of behaviors that is useful with a high degree of accuracy. Though in hindsight, the warnings signs are ALWAYS obvious. A few of the more common signs may be: a spouse continuously working late, withdrawn or distant, lack of intimacy and apprehension about sharing a computer or cell phone usage.

Suspicion Tends to Help Cheaters
A cheating spouse’s worst fear is getting caught. So, cheating spouses constantly monitor their partners for signs of suspicion. And if a cheating spouse detects suspicion, he/she will adjust his/her behavior to better hide and conceal the affair. Simply speaking, suspicion tends to help cheaters cheat more effectively. If your spouse is cheating, and you signal your doubts and suspicions, it's going to be much more difficult to discover the truth. When you put it all together, cheaters have the advantage, both trust and suspicion, tend to work in their favor.

So, how can you catch a cheating spouse?
If you suspect infidelity, DO NOT confront your spouse! Contact The Intelligence Group for a free consultation and speak with a licensed Professional  Private Investigator. All inquires are kept confidential. The Intelligence Group can help to Covertly and Discreetly obtain the Truth. Contact us today for a free consultation.